I remember being frustrated when people talked about the healing power of self-love, because I struggled with that. I loved my family and friends (or so I thought) and gave love and care to my clients, but when it came to accessing that love and care for myself, it was hard to find. And truthfully, I hardly even reached for it. But deep down I knew it was missing and I wasn’t sure how to change that. I began to wonder if I knew how to love at all. I lived this way for a long time. I went through a lot and had reached a certain level of spiritual…